What is the perfect marriege age for a woman?

I was just wandering....I'm 21, and always hear different "advices"! women over 50 tell me that my age is already high lol and women under 40 tell me that I should really enjoy my freedom and study! (And I totally agree with them! :LOL! so yeah, what do you think is the best age for marriege?

I'm afraid I can't vote...because I think there is no such thing as "perfect marroege age"
That depindes...maybe someone will never find the right person and will stay solo for the rest of his \her life...
I'm 22 ...and I don't think I'll marry too son.
It's not because I don't whant to...it's because I can't find a NORMAL man (here in Romania)
..so...if you ask me...I can't tell you that

exactly! I don't even bother about it. I know many girls cannot imagine their life without having a BF, but for me it's like "the less responcibility- the better"...I do go on dates if I want to, but I try to avoid guys who are actually "searchng" for a wife, because they scarry me I have so many guy friends, and I'm pretty satisfied with being their friend then something more

Right you are my sister...I feel the same.

hahaha! HI 5!

I dunno should I vote,cuz I agree with u too... I mean,when it happens-it happened...
Why should anyone force it just because of ages... Nonsense...
But if I would be forced to choose,I would say between 25-30... Maybe cuz of having kids... Dunno...

Same here. Its everyone for themselves. If it makes you happy then do it, dont live by someone elses rules. For me I would say 25-30 also, just because I would consider settling down, but for now I have to much partying to do !!!!! j/k

The different answers you received shows how each generation is so different!!! The world is different today, so I would just say do whats best for you!

Good Luck!

I agree. It is so easy to try and say this is the right time or this is the right time. I think that it should only be when you are ready for it and have the right person. I know way too many girls who have married someone just so that they can be married. They are miserable now. I think that it is much better to be who you are and if you find someone who you love and who loves you as well, then go for it. If not, oh well. Just be true to yourself!

Good luck!

as for me, it's really hard to commit to someone for my whole life, so I should be really carefull...and actually I think it will take a while until I set up with the marriege God! what am I talking about! it's hard for me to accept some BF! may be it sounds funny, but I can "read" people, and see what they are right from the first talk with them....in fact many of those guys are so..blank nothing special o even "new"... I guess it's because they are way too young and are slower than girls are...so I guess my perfect "family gal" age would be somewhere around 30

I Agree.....I hate to say it but my generation is not that exciting (well the guys atleast) . I always look for down to earth, but also originality (like Tarkan ) but its soooo hard to find. Guys these days are so stuck on trying to prove their manlyhood when they should really be stuck on other things!

I dont think it sounds bad what you said Olya, atleast you know what you want. I am that way too.....no settling for me, you have to be the man of my dreams to get that lucky

what the hell! i think there is not a age ... is the last thing i think about lol i'm young ( 25 is young= for me yes) and i want to have fun a lot before have married ahah

The perfect age is when you have found someone who is not just a very good friend but also a good lover and partner, with whom you want to share your life.
Have sex before you marry so you know that you are compatible in the sex department. Because if you have no sex you might end up with someone who is gay and in the closet, or someone who is careless about a womans desires.
Save yourself a lot of trouble and have sex before marriage.
The right age is when you feel ready and when your partner is ready too, to throw a big part and let the fun begin.

Inge wrote:

The perfect age is when you have found someone who is not just a very good friend but also a good lover and partner, with whom you want to share your life.
Have sex before you marry so you know that you are compatible in the sex department. Because if you have no sex you might end up with someone who is gay and in the closet, or someone who is careless about a womans desires.
Save yourself a lot of trouble and have sex before marriage.
The right age is when you feel ready and when your partner is ready too, to throw a big part and let the fun begin.

Oh I wanted to write "party".
And life doesnt end at marriage! I finished my studies while I was married and I still go to parties and to dancings (not as often as I d like to though).
But if marriage means that you have to stop living and you lose your freedom to do things on your onw or with friends, then you have chosen the wrong partner!
With "someone who is careless about a womans desires" I mean those men who think sex is only about their own orgasm, who are unable to caress and cuddle, or who don't have a clue about the necessary hand- and mouthwork that turns women on.
Find one who (metaphorically) wears a shirt that says: wine me, dine me, 69 me. You know the type

You said it Inge!! I have not found that person yet, but I see no reason that life must end with marriage.

For me, my ideal mate, must be my friend as well. I want someone that I enjoy spending time with, that I share my life with. I want an equal partner. Sex is important. But so is compatability. I dont know, maybe I am single because I want too much, but I see no reason to settle. I have a good life. If I am going to change it, I want it to be worth it.

Dawn

sure Dawn I agree with you totally. It may not always be nice to be single but thats not half as bad as people feel who are stuck in an unhappy relationship. That can really mess with your mind, to have a partner who makes you feel bad and who sucks all life energyu out of you.
So I think your strategy is very wise, and as for casual sex you can be less picky of course, at least, thats what I was...made things complicated sometimes, but I would just up and grab one occasionally
Poor guys...some were seriously interested...only I wasnt!

Inge I think that you are a great force to be reckoned with in anything you do. I am sure that your husband is very grateful he got you!

I hope that someday we can meet in person! You are talented and have a lot of strong opinions. I respect that a lot.

Dawn

For me I would choose from 20-25
cause in that time she already
finished her studies and I think
in that time she already a job so she
can start her own family





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